I'm all for pointing and waving. *points and waves*

These stories are your stories as much as theirs, and you have a right to name names and paint faces in your own stories. That said, I tend to cower towards discretion on the subject of people or subjects actually known to be sensitive. But as far as the rest of us are concerned...if we don't like being mentioned in public forums, we shouldn't frequent them, online or otherwise.

my $0.02
The Other Kat