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Age:
32. I'm dating a new boy who is 27. I'm not sure about anyone else at the moment. Whether we're dating or how old they are, either one.
How many years between you:
0. I'm three months older. Which makes me five years older than the new boy. I like to date people about my own age, usually.
How long have you been together?:
Depends on how you code it. The most recent negotiation? Two months. If you just talk about how long we've been messing around trying to have a relationship, almost 3 years. That's not counting the 1-2 years in the early 90s. Of course, I've dated the new boy for a week and a half. I've dated another guy since November or December. I guess I'm not counting anyone else as an SO or potential SO at the moment.
How long did you know each other before you got together:
We originally met in 1989, but didn't really know each other until we started dating after a one-night stand. Then we broke up and didn't talk to each other for 5 years. Then we spent a couple of months before we started being "together" again. I've known the new boy a couple of months, and the S0 v. 2.1 I've known since the early 90s, I guess, and we really got to know each other this past fall.
(So, let's call the SOs 1.3, 2.1, and 3.0, just to be confusing. :)
Eye color:
1.3, Blue. 2.1, I want to say light brown or hazel, but I could be wrong. 3.0, I say blue, he says green. Stunning, anyway.
Hair color:
1.3, Blond; 2.1, Brown; 3.0, Light Brown
How did you meet:
1.3, a mutual friend picked us both up, since we lived in the same neighborhood; 2.1, knew his girlfriend and her husband; 3.0, mailing list online.
How serious is it:
What are we talking about? Breadth or depth? 1.3 is quite serious, 2.1, not so much; 3.0, unknown.
Does he love you:
Yes, yes, no.
Do your parents like him:
1.3, yes; the others, she doesn't know.
Do you trust him:
1.3: Depends on with what. With my life, my computer, my stupid diaries... yes. With my cigarettes, Coca-Cola or "herbal remedies," no. He's an addictive little thing.
2.1: Yes. Pretty much. Haven't had a test I wouldn't put him to.
3.0: Dunno yet. Haven't really learned his character.
Would you share a toothbrush with him?
No, no one should share my toothbrush. It's too gross. My gums bleed.
Does he let you wear his pants:
I have a pair 1.3 outgrew that I love. And I've stolen his jeans from time to time. I don't think I would fit 2.1. 3.0, we're definitely not to that stage yet.
Do you have a shirt of theirs to sleep in that smells like him:
1.3, I have a shirt of his, but it's been washed many times since it smelled like him.
Can you picture having kids with him:
1.3, yes. 2.1, I might, but he wouldn't. 3.0, haven't gotten to that thought yet.
What do you like the most about him:
1.3, the way we're both into spirituality and sex... at the same time if we can. 2.1, the way I feel totally comfortable doing ordinary things with him, like watching a movie or going to Wal-Mart. 3.0, the way he's not afraid to say what he wants, and act on it.
What bothers you the most about him:
1.3: trying to wake him up. He hates it, and makes it really hard to do, then complains about whatever you do after he's driven you to extremes. 2.1, Mostly that we don't get to see each other much. 3.0, *shrug* don't know what bad habits he has.
Do he/she have a temper:
1.3, no, not much. 2.1, no. 3.0, unknown.
What is the best present they've ever given you:
1.3, all of them. He rarely gives presents, but he gives really really good ones. I love my Bast-kitty and my stone pipe particularly. 2.1 and 3.0 do not have present histories.
Do they have a nickname for you:
1.3 Kitty 2.1 Scylla 3.0 No
Do you have a nickname for them:
No, not really. 1.3 I call "sugar" a lot. I call everyone "sweetie" like a waitress, too. Not that it's not in there, but, like presents, nicknames have to be right.
Are you happy to be with them:
Yes.
What's their most attractive feature:
To me? I always like the same thing: cute butts, noses and chins, pretty eyes and nice ... um, you know... I'm sorry, but I DO like them! Freudian, I know. To other people, 1.3's high cheekbones, 2.1's infectious grin and 3.0's truly stunning eyes.
Do they have any piercings/tattoos:
Wow, of the three, I can't think of any...
Do they have any scars that you know of:
Yeah, but mostly like acne or chicken pox, nothing truly remarkable or disfiguring.
Is he a party guy or homebody:
1.3 likes to party with his closest friends, at home. 2.1 likes to stay home with a good scotch. 3.0 likes a good party, but enjoys books too!
Is he outgoing or shy:
Shy, shy, shy. 3.0 is the most social of the three, and he says he's kind of half-and-half.
32. I'm dating a new boy who is 27. I'm not sure about anyone else at the moment. Whether we're dating or how old they are, either one.
How many years between you:
0. I'm three months older. Which makes me five years older than the new boy. I like to date people about my own age, usually.
How long have you been together?:
Depends on how you code it. The most recent negotiation? Two months. If you just talk about how long we've been messing around trying to have a relationship, almost 3 years. That's not counting the 1-2 years in the early 90s. Of course, I've dated the new boy for a week and a half. I've dated another guy since November or December. I guess I'm not counting anyone else as an SO or potential SO at the moment.
How long did you know each other before you got together:
We originally met in 1989, but didn't really know each other until we started dating after a one-night stand. Then we broke up and didn't talk to each other for 5 years. Then we spent a couple of months before we started being "together" again. I've known the new boy a couple of months, and the S0 v. 2.1 I've known since the early 90s, I guess, and we really got to know each other this past fall.
(So, let's call the SOs 1.3, 2.1, and 3.0, just to be confusing. :)
Eye color:
1.3, Blue. 2.1, I want to say light brown or hazel, but I could be wrong. 3.0, I say blue, he says green. Stunning, anyway.
Hair color:
1.3, Blond; 2.1, Brown; 3.0, Light Brown
How did you meet:
1.3, a mutual friend picked us both up, since we lived in the same neighborhood; 2.1, knew his girlfriend and her husband; 3.0, mailing list online.
How serious is it:
What are we talking about? Breadth or depth? 1.3 is quite serious, 2.1, not so much; 3.0, unknown.
Does he love you:
Yes, yes, no.
Do your parents like him:
1.3, yes; the others, she doesn't know.
Do you trust him:
1.3: Depends on with what. With my life, my computer, my stupid diaries... yes. With my cigarettes, Coca-Cola or "herbal remedies," no. He's an addictive little thing.
2.1: Yes. Pretty much. Haven't had a test I wouldn't put him to.
3.0: Dunno yet. Haven't really learned his character.
Would you share a toothbrush with him?
No, no one should share my toothbrush. It's too gross. My gums bleed.
Does he let you wear his pants:
I have a pair 1.3 outgrew that I love. And I've stolen his jeans from time to time. I don't think I would fit 2.1. 3.0, we're definitely not to that stage yet.
Do you have a shirt of theirs to sleep in that smells like him:
1.3, I have a shirt of his, but it's been washed many times since it smelled like him.
Can you picture having kids with him:
1.3, yes. 2.1, I might, but he wouldn't. 3.0, haven't gotten to that thought yet.
What do you like the most about him:
1.3, the way we're both into spirituality and sex... at the same time if we can. 2.1, the way I feel totally comfortable doing ordinary things with him, like watching a movie or going to Wal-Mart. 3.0, the way he's not afraid to say what he wants, and act on it.
What bothers you the most about him:
1.3: trying to wake him up. He hates it, and makes it really hard to do, then complains about whatever you do after he's driven you to extremes. 2.1, Mostly that we don't get to see each other much. 3.0, *shrug* don't know what bad habits he has.
Do he/she have a temper:
1.3, no, not much. 2.1, no. 3.0, unknown.
What is the best present they've ever given you:
1.3, all of them. He rarely gives presents, but he gives really really good ones. I love my Bast-kitty and my stone pipe particularly. 2.1 and 3.0 do not have present histories.
Do they have a nickname for you:
1.3 Kitty 2.1 Scylla 3.0 No
Do you have a nickname for them:
No, not really. 1.3 I call "sugar" a lot. I call everyone "sweetie" like a waitress, too. Not that it's not in there, but, like presents, nicknames have to be right.
Are you happy to be with them:
Yes.
What's their most attractive feature:
To me? I always like the same thing: cute butts, noses and chins, pretty eyes and nice ... um, you know... I'm sorry, but I DO like them! Freudian, I know. To other people, 1.3's high cheekbones, 2.1's infectious grin and 3.0's truly stunning eyes.
Do they have any piercings/tattoos:
Wow, of the three, I can't think of any...
Do they have any scars that you know of:
Yeah, but mostly like acne or chicken pox, nothing truly remarkable or disfiguring.
Is he a party guy or homebody:
1.3 likes to party with his closest friends, at home. 2.1 likes to stay home with a good scotch. 3.0 likes a good party, but enjoys books too!
Is he outgoing or shy:
Shy, shy, shy. 3.0 is the most social of the three, and he says he's kind of half-and-half.
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Date: 2003-04-07 07:47 am (UTC)Oh god, isn't that the truth. Some things never change. Smirk.
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Date: 2003-04-07 07:50 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2003-04-08 11:22 pm (UTC)In this case, though, I must be serious, I'm ready to name names:
SO v. 1.3,
SO v. 2.1,
SO v. 3.0,
So I'm now "boy 3.0?" It's sounds like buggy software that's still in beta testing... But I guess that's what the first few weeks of dating is like, huh?
And something else: Puck has never written in his journal yet either.
Re:
Date: 2003-04-09 08:43 am (UTC)It was between him and a brawny redhead you have also been hanging out with but since you mentioned wife, that pretty much ruled him out.
And, well, at least Puck knows his password.