If you're on my friends' list, or think you are, or want to be....

[scyllacat]

Okay, it's time to cull the friends list. Just for me, and maybe for the curious, I'll write what I know, and you'll be organized by groups.

If you're deleted, and you know me, and I've forgotten you, or you don't want to be deleted, please send a reply. If I've got you in the "wrong" group and I've mistaken you for someone else, also please raise your hand.

Please note that it's not personal. I have too many people to read on my friends list, and many people that I barely know, or I don't remember our personal meeting and have forgotten why they're here. Maybe you don't post anymore, or we haven't spoken in a while. If you don't want to be deleted, just say so!

If you know someone you think I SHOULD have on my journal friends list, please comment.

Finally, I have created a journal called scyllafriend. If you're not on LiveJournal, and don't want an account, but want to read screened posts and you know me personally you can send me a message and I will email you the password. I don't know if this will be useful, so if no one wants it, I will delete it.


The Clan: These people hold a special place in my life.
aatea: my college roommate.
burnoutn9: N9'er and "big brother."
dosferatu: long-time boyfriend and best friend.
elorie: an essential member of my circle of friends and mother of thewonderboy.
marroonfire
polychromatic22: best friend and roommate.
sapphire_d: we started online together.
thorgryn: former boyfriend in Florida.
whorlwind: my best friend's husband and also my roommate.

N9: The infamous once-Rocky-Horror group and other RHPS associates
asbrand
cor256: Corey.
cworeilly: Winston.
ed209uardo
flyswatter: I keep asking for her name, and then I forget and just call her "mom."
fuzzytoe42
greyfather
greywolfe
helichrysm
hellodali
nausved: Halley.
phishrmann9
splunge: never N9, I don't think, but met through Rocky all those years ago...
trinity1013
wolfspawn

Real-Life Friends
_lycaeon: Danyel from Athens.
adric: Netherworld associate.
alc2i: met at Dragon*Con last year.
alobar: acquaintance from New Orleans.
aydub: fiance of sophocles.
bitmap: long-time friend.
cyanidefish: Sheila. We went to college together, along with other associations.
dellarte: friend of zamiel and sister of satanicanimalx. My friend, too.
dreauboy: friend from New Orleans.
earendel: acquaintance and SO of shalie.
eugie: writer with a skunk.
gaeirin: a friend who moved away.
grabbingsand: 'zine writer and Dragon*Con friend.
grizzlydan: long-time friend, libertarian, UU.
horror24fps: /|\
iworkhere: on here because I never see him anymore in real life!
jaila: party girl!
justben: pagan friend I don't see enough of.
kellinator: haven't seen her in a while, but just the same...
kingofthewho: leader of the best Celtic rock band ever. :)
ladyeorann: newish friend, from Dragon*Con and SCA, I think.
lafemmedesfemme: friend and mother of senimchi.
matraia: SO of sapphire_d.
max_the_silent: another haunted house actor plus rennie. Weirdo. :)
mcsmiley
medusaofticun: former roommate and nice girl. But crazy!
misslucy: another Netherworld associate.
morganaelf: another new Dragon*Con friend, with other connections.
mr_death: SO of n3m3sis42, also Dragon*Con acquaintance.
n3m3sis42: met that one time at Dragon*Con. We need to get together again.
ptwarhol
radiantbaby: a new friend, girlfriend of justben.
rooksknight
salvaged: husband of lafemmedesfemme and father of senimchi.
satanicanimalx
senimchi: token baby.
shalie
simplysakka
skylarblue: co-worker, wife of burnoutn9.
sophocles: Smoothie the Netherspawn!
sugared_redhead: new wife of grizzlydan.
thewonderboy: Raven. The name says it all.
thunderminded: a wonderful, sweet woman.
tbrents: we've known each other so long, I almost forgot how we met. ;-)
tbrents_mi
twysted_vyxen: another scary girl.
vidicon
vlad_the_rus: SCAdian I met at Dragon*Con.
zamiel

MUCK people I "know" online (and associates)
amilori: wife of roon.
auliya
bluedeer: Skye Bluedeer
bubbycat
chipuni: Chip Unicorn
dv_girl
feenixfire
fm_status: If the MUCK goes down, I need to know. :)
foofers: he's just the cutest thing... but who has seen him lately???
furetdeferret
gafennec
gallifreyan
haystack
jlick
kibbles
klaatuwolf
krag_carbine: Rabbi Tom!
mwerevu
nightypanther
paka
perlandria: Purrip
revar
roon
rserocki
sandramort: Lynne
shaterri
snooze
sslaxx
susandeer
toastifer
tuftears: Lynx
tugrik
wildcard_foxy
wordslinger: K'has
xirtam50
ytaya
ztrooper

LJ people I've gotten to know through communities or friends
aldoushuxley: libertarian.
ashlupa: I believe I met you through elorie but now we have other friends in common...
betnybean: partner of adric.
benkilpatrick: friend from libertarian community, from New Orleans.
cherrypep: LJ friend who added after Katrina.
cloudwatcher: local who added after Katrina. We still need to meet someday!
dragontdc: connected through several friends, we need to hook up someday soon!
edwardv
evilegg: witty girl. I think she's a girl. Met through communities.
insomnia: a person who knows what's going on. Probably from all that time spent not sleeping.
lt_kitty
phantasmamorgan
pookah
sambear: friend of a friend, poly-community person.
secanth
stellabambino: minion of zamiel.
theferrett: semi-famous, and interesting to watch.
yep_i_am_dennis: new friend of a friend.

Other online people
clavero: met through chat.
elfs: Elf M. Sternberg. Known only as a friend of a friend, but I find him fascinating.
ranmasal: mate of a friend, but no knowledge of, yet...

Communities
paidmembers: oooh, look, they know me here!
quotefarm: funny things we overheard.
weepingcock: funny porn we overread.


Deleted (at least for the moment)
0rganism: I know there was a reason, but I forgot it. Could be the cool journal layout.
akibare: I just forgot.
allthewaydown:nothing's happened here for four years. If we revive it, I'll come back.
alohawolf: furry, SF area, but not a lot in common.
anexstacy: friend of a friend. Maybe someday.
angelbaby_311: partner of bitmap.
angerbunny: clever, talented, furry, but not often seen by me.
asmodeuis: N9.
aurusrage: furry, but we don't see each other much.
badger_9: obviously from netherworld, but who are you? :(
bannanna: N9.
barberio: a furry? how do I know you? Have we met?
bdsm_poly: I am not really into this right now.
beachsomewhere
bhavfox
blackeyedbean
buzz_off_buzz
commune_dream
cqwense
cratermoon
crossfire_
cut_le_crap
d3n
dadella
dark_shine_101
dayoff
devon_hh
deza
drakegrey: Furry, but haven't seen him around for a bit.
dreadalus: my ex-husband.
eastcoastfurs
ellyssian
exena
fantasm: Fantasm, I miss you.
fateclotho
feanorelf
fornorald: deleted journal. We'll worry about that later.
freelance_write
furrysantuary: I admit it, I can't stand the misspelling.
garyamort
garybaldy
gblake
geekquotient25
get_edited
girlgeeks
girlwithagun
gnomen9
hanov3r
hooded1
hopscotchn9
humanistdragon
iaddbandkids: I don't think they actually post, and I don't know them really.
immortallander: N9, but haven't spoken in forever.
impytoes
innovox: we miss it forever.
ishboo: same as immortallander.
itzena
ixchelmala
kimono_skunk
kitsunetorn
jackfurlong
jane_error
janezero
junebugg68: I haven't heard from her in so long... :(
katiedarling
katrinacane: well, there's nothing posted here, I'm on their list, but there's no reason for them to be on mine.
kelliecoo
korderoy: N9, but not known personally to me, I don't think.
lit_aspiring
lootsfoz
lupaloo
lupusfeuer
lynn_onyx: I'm not sure if this is the person I thought I knew.
magnavixen
maitrix
marti2003
metrogeekual
morgothlot
mscouture
myndsweep
mystiw
neeceemouse: haven't seen her post in a while, maybe we'll get back in touch.
negability
nekojin
netherfreak: well, I haven't seen him for a long time.
neworleans
niggeriffic: I've never been able to figure out if I did know her or if she's related to someone I know.
nonoxinol9
octantis
ogregod
paid_to_write
projectar: you never write anymore.
prowler777
purplehaze74: haven't seen her in three years, I think.
queueball
razelore
ronnieja
ruronin
sabertooth1980
salomes_pimp
sascha
seep
sex_intellect: I am tired of being in communities I don't have time to follow, or contribute to.
sfandf_writers: See above.
shadesong: met only once, I think.
silverfur
sniglets: I think I'd like it if more happened.
taliaphoenix
the_quark
theadept
thetuan: we just barely know each other...
tk0667
trappermcintyre
turbulentfizz
videovixen
vinylm
weaverandom
wewillrebuild
wyldemusick
xb95
xian_kitty
yarrick

Comments

[wyldemusick.livejournal.com]

Deleted again, alas alack.

I wonder if I'll simply fade? Or will I disappear entire?

(Wanders unloved into the night....)

[scyllacat.livejournal.com]

Ah, but you're here, and you're paying attention. That's different.

[simplysakka.livejournal.com]

I'm glad I made the list of "real life friends" since we actually *are* - but really, we've not seen each other in several years, so we should probably change that. I'd love to see Mark at some point, too.

I'm traveling to Canada in the next few weeks and will be back just as January turns to February. Any chance of either a visit down here or me coming up there?

[ztrooper.livejournal.com]

Woo! made the cut! For reference, I am Manfred on FM. 8)

[shalie.livejournal.com]

Earendel and I broke up a month ago.

I recently just began posting again. Hopefully my LJ will stay interesting enough to stay on the keep list.

[scyllacat.livejournal.com]

You and I have a lot longer history than that! I am sorry about earendel, assuming that's the correct thing to say. I wanted to know him better, but our (yours, mine, his) circles haven't intersected lately.

[shalie.livejournal.com]

You moved to New Orleans. Makes it difficult to circle in the same crowd. Did you move back due to the flooding?

Earendel and my breakup was emotional for both of us. But I believe it ran it's full course and got of us from point A to point B as someone put it. We both learned a lot. Before I dissapeared for a week, we decided to be friends and get together about once a month.

[max-the-silent.livejournal.com]

Yeah, but I'm a damned cute weirdo!

[scyllacat.livejournal.com]

Yes, you are, and there's no need to brag. :)

[max-the-silent.livejournal.com]

Sure there is!!

;)

[yarrick.livejournal.com]

I believe I should be on the Muck list. I'm Yarrick on there as well and in the park on a fairly regular basis. I generally just don't have time to comment in other people's journals unless I read something that really strikes me.

[scyllacat.livejournal.com]

Yup, you're a perfect example. Now I know you're paying attention. (re-adds) :)

[nausved.livejournal.com]

Yay! I'm still on!

I really should organize my friends list, too. So much reading....

[mr-death.livejournal.com]

I am glad that you decided to keep me around.

I still thank you for coming to my aid at con that year.

[scyllacat.livejournal.com]

Are you kidding? I need to get in touch with you in real life. :)

[mr-death.livejournal.com]

JA! I agree!

[gaeirin.livejournal.com]

Thanks for not deleting me! We still keep up, even if we are far away!

[maitrix.livejournal.com]

Keep me on, you know me from Fahy's, and I really want to keep up with how you continue with your life after the storm that rocked our lives!

As frustrating as it may sound to you and your readers, the plodding, the putting of one foot in front of the other and moving on, is what keeps life interesting and real. We have to do it and ... you are!

[scyllacat.livejournal.com]

Ok, Now I remember. Done and done!

[drakegrey.livejournal.com]

No worries, I'll go quietly. I have trouble myself, keeping up on LJ - and I have a fraction of the friends list you do. ;P

And I am on FM but usually paged to the point I can't think straight - assuming I ever could, of course.

Vaya con los lobos,

--Drake

[scyllacat.livejournal.com]

Don't pout, Drake. I didn't know you were still reading.

[lupaloo.livejournal.com]

We met once at Sara and Droid's. I'm not attached to staying on your friends list since we're really just friends of friends, but just wanted to mention that in case you didn't remember.

[scyllacat.livejournal.com]

I remember now. Your picture is pretty. I think it would be nice to meet again.

[lupaloo.livejournal.com]

Thank you. :) We do have a few friends in common so we might just run into one another.

[radiantbaby.livejournal.com]

I'd love to stay :)

[flyswatter.livejournal.com]

Yay!

Just for the record, my parents call me Laura, as calling me Mom would be silly.

[silverfur.livejournal.com]

I see I didn't make the cut, but it doesn't bother me. My worth isn't tied to how many LJ friends lists I am on. :) Also, my journal tends to be very boring and mostly sporadic anyway...
-Gin (@FM)

[scyllacat.livejournal.com]

Hey, Gin! There you are being another example. I forgot this was you!

[satanicanimalx.livejournal.com]

Yes, I do so want to stay. I'll even give you a special icon for this comment.

[hanov3r.livejournal.com]

Deleted (at least for the moment)

hanov3r

I found your LJ (as many did) during/shortly after Katrina, commented, and you ended up friending me. We also have at least one mutual friend overseas.

I've enjoyed reading your journal, but please don't feel obligated to keep me around. :-)

[benkilpatrick.livejournal.com]

Don't remove me!

[dellarte.livejournal.com]

I feel luved!